Glossary
Stay
A cue that asks a dog to keep its position, such as sitting or lying down, until the owner releases it.
Also called: sit-stay, down-stay, stay cue, wait
"Stay" teaches a dog to hold a position until told it may move. Trainers build it in three parts, called the three Ds: duration (how long), distance (how far the handler moves away) and distraction (what is going on around). Raise only one at a time, and go back a step if the dog fails.
A release word, such as "okay", is important. It tells the dog when the stay is over, so the dog does not decide that on its own.
Stay is a self-control skill, not a test of obedience, and young puppies find it hard. It is often confused with "wait", which means pause briefly and then continue, such as at a door, while "stay" means remain until released. Reward the dog in place instead of calling it out of the stay.
Last reviewed November 8, 2026